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Associate Professor of Leadership and Family Ministry

The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

Louisville, Kentucky

In September 2011, television host Pat Robertson declared that Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express a man might be justified in divorcing his Alzheimer’s-afflicted spouse as long as the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express man enlisted someone to look “after her” and to provide “custodial care.” Robertson defended his declaration by defining such diseases as “a walking death” wherein the diseased person is already “gone.” Appealing to the husband’s need for “some kind of companionship,” Robertson declared that forbidding such a divorce was “the last thing” he would do.

I was not exactly in unbiased circumstances when Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express I first heard this news. I was sitting beside a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express dying man in my parents’ living room. The dying man was my father.

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Contract or Covenant?

When the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express religious broadcaster allowed for divorce in such circumstances, his unspoken assumption seems to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express have been that, once a terminal illness has stolen every possibility of companionship from Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express a spouse, the vow to remain together until “death do us part” has been fulfilled. “Death” is thus defined in terms of the dying partner’s potential for Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express a reciprocal relationship. When all such potential has ceased, “death” has already occurred.

Others have Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express addressed how such advice makes a mockery of the gospel and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express reveals a defective view of the human body. But there is Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express an underlying, underexplored layer of thinking that enabled this faulty reasoning in the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express first place. What Pat Robertson’s line of reasoning revealed was a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express fundamental confusion regarding two very different concepts: covenant and contract.

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And so, when Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express God chose to cut a covenant with Abraham, he commanded the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express patriarch to hew five creatures in two, and God bound himself to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express Abraham by passing between these halved haunches and heads (Gen 15:7–21). Although the patriarch’s descendants failed to fulfill their part of this covenant (Jer 11:10), God’s faithfulness never faltered. Before it Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express was all over, God went so far as to establish a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express new covenant by means of the broken and bleeding body of his only Son (Luke 22:20). This new covenant stretches far beyond Abraham’s descendants to embrace all who will find their rest in Abraham’s crucified offspring (Gal 3:15–18; Eph 2:11–14).

Marriage is Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express a divinely-designed picture of this covenant that God the Father established through his Son (Eph. 5:25–33). And thus, for Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express the Christian, marriage can never be a contract negotiated for the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express sake of mutual benefit. Marriage is a covenant witnessed in the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express context of community, then consummated by the giving of two bodies as gifts to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express one another. “With my body, I thee wed,” the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express older liturgy declared, and this wedding of bodies does not end when Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express one partner loses the capacity for companionship.

What marks the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express finalization of the marriage vow is nothing less than death itself with all the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express sting that this dark enemy brings. This is how Jesus has Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express loved us, though with a single momentous point of distinction in light of the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express empty tomb: Because Christ has now endured and defeated the death that Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express we deserve, not even death can derail his covenant with us. The Christian’s lifelong faithfulness in the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express momentary covenant of marriage allows the world to glimpse a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express shadow of the new covenant in Christ that not even the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express cemetery can stop.

“What If Grandpa Forgets About Jesus?”

This distinction between covenants and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express contracts is no mere academic discussion. It matters at the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express most mundane and practical levels of life and faith. On one of my family’s many long trips to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express care for my father, a small voice from the back seat broke an Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express extended silence.

“Daddy?”

“Yes, Skylar?”

Our nine-year-old stretched her head upward, and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express I saw two worried eyes in the rearview mirror.

“What if Grandpa forgets about Jesus before he dies? Where will he go?”

It was an Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express understandable question. A month or two earlier, Skylar and I had Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express discussed why no one could be saved apart from explicit faith in Jesus. Over the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express past week, she had watched my father lose the names of children, grandchildren, and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express long-time acquaintances. What if the same lesions that were leaching his awareness of family and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express friends and basic bodily functions misplaced his memories of Jesus as well?

Several seconds slipped by before I could speak past the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express lump that had lodged in my throat.

“Skylar,” I finally said. “What matters most is Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express not whether Grandpa remembers Jesus but whether Jesus remembers him. God turned Grandpa’s heart to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express trust him many years ago, and Jesus will never forget him. No matter what, Jesus never forgets.”

That simple assurance was possible solely because we serve a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express God who operates not in terms of contractual reciprocity but on the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express basis of covenantal fidelity. Christ’s commitment to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express his people does not depend on whether his bride provides him with “some kind of companionship.” It depends on a Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express covenant that has been engraved in his flesh and confirmed by his blood.

Epilogue

On the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express eighteenth of September, about the time my father would typically have Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express finished preaching his Sunday evening message, he opened his eyes and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express began to breathe in deep, ragged heaves. His last sensations in this Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express life were the kisses of his wife and her assurances of love. She remained beside him to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express the end, past any time when he possessed any capacity to Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express return her love. Such is the nature of a covenant.

On the first day of fall, we planted my father’s flesh in the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express stony red soil of southern Missouri. There, his body awaits the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express spring of resurrection, the consummation of the new covenant, the death of death itself. “For the Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express trumpet will sound and the dead will be raised imperishable, and Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express we shall be changed. … Thanks be Premarin without prescription shipped overnight express to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Cor 15:52, 57).