Why is it so important to understand and live out biblical manhood and womanhood in the home and local church?
John Piper and Wayne Grudem (edited by David Kotter)
Biblical truth and clarity about manhood and womanhood are important because error and confusion over sexual identity leads to:
- marriage patterns that do not portray the relationship between Christ and the church (Ephesians 5:31-32);
- parenting practices that do not train boys to be masculine or girls to be feminine;
- homosexual tendencies and increasing attempts to justify homosexual alliances
- patterns of unbiblical female leadership in the church that reflect and promote the confusion over the true meaning of manhood and womanhood.
God's gift of complementary manhood and womanhood was exhilarating from the beginning (Genesis 2:23). It is precious beyond estimation. But today it is esteemed lightly and is vanishing like the rain forests we need but don't love. We believe that what is at stake in human sexuality is the very fabric of life as God wills it to be for the holiness of His people and for their saving mission to the world.
Not to take a stand on this issue in our culture is to take a very decisive stand because of the relentless pressure for change being applied on many sides by feminists. Public advocacy on this issue results in so much criticism that many Christian leaders strive to avoid it. But there is no avoiding it. It is a massive issue that goes to the depths of who we are as persons and therefore touches all of life. Our counsel here is not to set out a specific strategy to preserve God's gift of sexual complementarity. Rather, we simply plead for Christian leaders to awaken to the importance of what is at stake and seek the wisdom from above for how to act for the good of the church and the glory of God.

