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Owen Strachan
June 1, 2009
New York Times columnist Ross Douthat has Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription just penned a provocative piece called "Liberated and Unhappy" that briefly analyzes a new study entitled "The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness" buy prednisone online with no perscription by economists Betsey Stevenson and Justin Wolfers.
Here's what Douthat says about the study:
"[T]he achievements of the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription feminist era may have delivered women to greater unhappiness. In the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription 1960s, when Betty Friedan diagnosed her fellow wives and daughters as the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription victims of "the problem with no name," American women reported themselves happier, on average, than Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription did men. Today, that gender gap has reversed. Male happiness has Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription inched up, and female happiness has dropped. In postfeminist America, men are Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription happier than women."
Douthat takes a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription moderated approach in his analysis of the situation, eschewing either a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription "strict feminist" or a "gender-role traditionalist" line:
"Feminists and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription traditionalists should be able to agree, for instance, that the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription structures of American society don't make enough allowances for Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription the particular challenges of motherhood. We can squabble forever about the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription choices that mothers ought to make, but the difficult work-parenthood juggle is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription here to stay. (Just ask Sarah and Todd Palin.) And there are Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription all kinds of ways - from a more family-friendly tax code to Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription a more accommodating educational system - that public policy can make that Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription juggle easier. Conservatives and liberals won't agree on the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription means, but they ought to agree on the end: a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription nation where it's easier to Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription balance work and child-rearing, however you think that balance should be Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription struck."
He concludes with these on-target suggestions:
"But a new-model stigma shouldn't (and couldn't) look like the old sexism. There's no necessary reason why feminists and cultural conservatives can't join forces - in the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription same way that they made common cause during the pornography wars of the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription 1980s - behind a social revolution that ostracizes serial baby-daddies and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription trophy-wife collectors as thoroughly as the "fallen women" of a more patriarchal age.
No reason, of course, save the fact that contemporary America doesn't seem willing to accept sexual stigma, period. We simply don't have Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription the stomach for permanently ostracizing the sexually irresponsible - be they a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription pregnant starlet, a thrice-divorced tycoon, or even a prostitute-hiring politician.
In this Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription sense, ours is a kinder, gentler, more forgiving country than Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription it was 40 years ago. But for half the public, it's an unhappier country as well."
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I'm thankful that Douthat covered this topic in a highly influential publication. The spotlight he can throw on this issue as a NYT columnist is significant, and I'm glad he did. Though many in the media and academy won't want to Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription talk much about this subject, it is well worth considering.
I don't agree with everything Douthat says. I don't think, for example, that the "work-parenthood juggle" is as hard as some make it out to be. Sarah Palin is a highly gifted woman, but she is not the first. Highly gifted women have Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription served their families at home in highly significant ways for millenia. As numerous biographies of important figures show, their work has Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription produced incredible results.
Indeed, the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription line that talented women only do justice to their gifts through full-time work is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription a myth, nothing more. Full-time mothering involves skills and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription tasks too numerous to mention and almost too varied to Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription believe. In a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription traditional home, women may well assume some burden for education, requiring a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription fast and flexible mind. They must solve countless domestic problems. They must engage in significant moral formation each day, handling challenging ethical situations. They must budget well. They have to plan. The sheer amount of planning alone in the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription life of a young wife and mother is staggering and took a Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription young, naive husband by surprise early in my marriage.
So the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription cultural line that draws so many women out of the home and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription into the workplace is just plain silly. God made women complex, highly nuanced, multitalented, and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription the demands of the home call for just such an Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription individual, one who can manage many tasks at once, negotiate the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription shifting moods and needs of a child, and provide emotional and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription physical support for a husband. The home is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription not too small for a woman; it is almost too large for Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription her (and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription men, so adept at various forms of work, are simply no Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription match for it, as the briefest of motherly absences abundantly proves).
I'm all for "socially ostracizing" the growing corps of jerks who call themselves men. The problem, as Douthat rightly notes, is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription that we have largely lost the ability to stigmatize such men. We have Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription cut our worldview out from under ourselves, and thus we have Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription little grounds on which to make such clear moral pronouncements. If the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription leaders of our society would make strong statements on such matters, things could change. But at present, few do so. Who stands to suffer in such a climate? Women and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription children, those who historically suffer from the evil deeds and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription attitudes of men.
In sum, I feel badly for many women today. They have been sold a false bill of goods. They have been told that they can have it all—career and motherhood at the top of the list. Ludicrously, they have Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription been persuaded that they can perform the impossible task of balancing full-time domestic work with full-time vocational work. It is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription a testament to the strength of womanhood that so many modern women are Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription able, in the end, to care for their children on some level while working outside of the Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription home. Yet such achievement comes, as the study shows, at great cost. Women are Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription not happy today; their children, we may assume, are not either.
Remarkably, there is a solution. There is a cure. But it will come at a cost. It will mean that women—as it seems they are in increasing number—must reject the modern offer. They must reject the cultural myth that they can "have it all" and, more significantly, that "having it all" as culturally defined is actually their best life option. From here, they will find great joy and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription fulfillment in embracing the not insignificant responsibilities of the home. They will not find in it an easy or quiet life, necessarily. They will find, though, greater happiness, less stress, more fulfillment.
Modern women are unhappy. But hope for happiness exists. In the traditional model of feminity, they can find it. The church, which believes in gender roles out of faithfulness to Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription Christ and His Word, has an opportunity to demonstrate to unhappy women everywhere that Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription a better life exists. This life is Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription not necessarily easy, it is not always fun, and it Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription involves considerable sacrifice. But it Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription is full of significance, full of joys both small and great, and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription full of the grace of a Savior whose blood offers all people forgiveness they so desperately need and Buy cheap Doxycycline without a perscription fulfillment that will take an eternity to experience.
